Dating girls. For many this is a complete
mystery. For others, they have created a science
out of it and seem to be able to date anyone
they please. Some have trouble meeting girls;
others struggle with making the transition from
being friends to dating while even others
struggle with keeping a relationship interesting.
With all these different issues involving dating
it is difficult to pin down one specific
strategy that will help everyone. The most
surefire ways to be successful in dating are
confidence and being yourself.
Confidence is something that many men lack in
dating. Many become too afraid or shy when
trying to date. Confident men appear more sure
of themselves and, in turn, are not afraid of
striking up a conversation with a girl. They
aren’t afraid of being rejected because they
know that there are many girls out there. Those
that lack confidence, even if they do start a
conversation, usually aren’t as charming because
they are trying to think of things to say next
rather than just letting themselves do the
talking.
This relates into the next way which is being
yourself. Those guys who put on a show to try
and win over a girl might get a date out of it
but won’t be able to create a lasting
relationship. Those that are themselves from the
get-go and aren’t embarrassed or shy of who they
are will be dating girls that are most similar
to them and like them for who they are and not
who they seem to be. Being yourself makes
everything easier as you don’t have to pretend
to be someone else just to impress your date.
You can feel comfortable with yourself and know
that however you are is okay and you don’t have
to change that.
Although dating girls can sometimes feel as
difficult as upper division organic chemistry,
it doesn’t have to. If you are confident and be
yourself you will have great success in dating.
